Just our thoughts whenever we feel like sharing them or get around to posting something.
Friday, July 25, 2008
I Need To Brag (well just a little)
My oldest son Jason just accepted the position of Vice President at Merrill Lynch! www.ml.com Jason had been thinking of leaving and they made him "an offer he couldn't refuse". I guess he must be doing something they like. Congratulations Jason!
OK. I'll stop bragging now. However, I must say I know where they got their good looks and intelligence!! HA! HA! HA!
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
OUR TRIP TO ORLANDO 2nd July to 6th July 2008
Ah Don is not showing you the way to the ride.
Saturday, July 19, 2008
WE ARE BACK TO OUR DAYS !!!!
However, I still woke up early as usual; just want to make sure he have the coffee and cookies with him to the office.
Can anyone image how hurt it can be when you were there siting and that you are excluded to recive even a simple word of "Good Nite" and there were hugging and kissing goodnight next to you ???
Anyway.... I am glad that I have my days back again! Everything should be back to normal ! I am glad that she landed her home sweet home yesterday. I am pleased that I have a chance to say some words to her before she left and hoped that she got my message.
All the best to you Jaclyn!! Hope you really enjoy the good & quality time with your dad here.
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Beside this, I am excited to receive the following Certificate from eBay !!!
Good Job eh !!
PS : I am supposed to post some pics of our visit to Orlando in early July. I mentioned this to my daughter,but regretedly, I did not have the mood to do so . I feel bad !
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Reply To "WE HAVE A PROBLEM !!!"
In terms of the fan, I turn the ceiling fan on every night !! I have learned to cover my legs to avoid the cramps and I can deal with the clogged head in the morning (it clears within an hour after I get up).
Sooooooooo, do we have a problem ??? :)) :)) :)) :))
In terms of the young lady (Jaclyn), I have already observed that she has changed a LOT in the past three years. I think this visit will go very well. Everyone just needs to keep an open mind and make a few little adjustments and it will all be fine. :) :)
Just my thoughts.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
WE HAVE PROBLEMS !!!
We have to set the air conditioning system runing the whole day so that the house temperature will remain cool at our desired temperature. This is nice, when we come home from work!!
But, It is not a good idea when it comes to our sleeping time ................... This is where our problem starts >>>>>>>>>>>>
I do not like to have the air-con running the whole night;
Reason : when it get too cold, I will pull/snatch the whole blanket to my end. ..... Ah Don suffers !! Not Fair !
I used to sleep with window opened to ensure better ventilation. This is not allowed !!! Someone said "During the hot season, we have to close all doors and window to prevent the heat coming to the house.!"
Okie OKie , No problem, So, I bought a small fan to place on the night stand to let it blow onto my face when I sleep. Sound good!
But, the problem still not solved !!! Why ??
Ah Don does not like the fan ( even it is just a 6" fan! ), the fan will blow his head and clog up his nose !!! Not nice again !!!
" What about that ceiling fan that you have in the in the room ?? " you asked .
" Yeah ! but that fan will blow directly on our feet. Ah Don can't stand it. He will have cramp feet in the morning. He suffers again !!!
Now, do you think we have a Problem here !!
Any solution ???
I do have one !!!
Should I put him to sleep in the guest room ??? ha hahahaha....
Shhhhhhh... I hope he will miss this blog. Otherwise he is going to get annoyed ....... :(:(:(:(
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Yeah, I think I will have another problem very soon !!! ..... guess what ???
One young lady will be coming to stay with us for a couple of weeks..........
In 2005, she came to stay with us in New Jersey together with her sister. I was very new to this country at that time. The bad experience that I received almost driven me to pack my luggage and leave!!!
You asked me " Are you serious? "
Yes! I was!! because my daughter was all alone by herself. She was sick and admitted to the hospital. No one looked after her! And, I was serving people who did not appreciate !!
Anyway, I only hope that this young lady will behave better and than Ah Don will know how to handle the situation since he should know me better by now.
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Just my thought.....
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Thank you love.
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Monday, June 16, 2008
AH DON HAS A NEW TOY ON FATHER DAY !!!!
It ended up we signed for the following car after 5 long hours of viewing, discussing, negotiating, bargaining and chatting. We took delivery of this car during our lunch time today !!!
This is definitely a beautiful car. It has all the enhance features that are not in our old Camry.It has leather seats with built-in bluetooth receiver etc..... ( I heard and I knew there are a lot of extra, I am unable to list them here )
At that very moment, I could see that Ah Don love it at first sight..... so he asked " What do you think ? " This is the normal question he would raise if he needed me to " affirm" his thinking right !!
Sunday, June 15, 2008
HAPPY FATHER DAY TO AH DON
It's a pair of Earth Shoes. They are good for his feet. Since young, Ah Don has the feet problem; he could not walk for long if he is not wearing the right shoes and support. Recently, he has custom-made a pair of insert from the shoes expert. That helps him a lot, now, he has less complaint on walking with me at garage sales.
This is the 2nd pair of earth shoes he has. They are great & comfortable shoes for his feet and posture. I may want to get a pair for myself in near future.
We will be going out shortly to look for a good place for lunch. ( special treatment for him - no home cook ! )
This is the FATHER DAY for him- not exciting but it will be more fun and meaningful if Jason, Chris, Nicole and Jaclyn will call him today to brighten his day !!
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Saturday, May 31, 2008
SAND HILL CRANES & WILD RABBITS
The little ones are very cute; I want to catch them one day!
Besides these animals, there are small rodents which look like hamsters in the bushes too. There are different birds flying around the trees. I enjoy the presence of all these animals.
I'll keep watching... I am sure there are some other "guests" in the bushes!!!
Monday, May 26, 2008
I ONCE WANTED TO BE ......
Next, what about my passion to become a SINGER ???
Sunday, May 25, 2008
IT'S HOT ! HOT! HOT!
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
WORDS
This is something that I have to remind myself from time to time....
Monday, May 19, 2008
SOME RECAPS
I'll like to begin with something positive and encouraging on what I HAVE. First of all, it is definately the relationship that I traded by forgoing most of what I had in Malaysia. I fully understand that it wasn’t a bed of roses waiting for me to receive and appreciate. It needs water & sunsine. Likewise, to nurture a good relationship, it requires mutual effort, respect, understanding and support of each other. Some friends questioned me why would I take such a high risk to marry someone whom I knew through Internet and someone of different race and and culture overseas? There is no guarantee for good marriage. Somehow, I am glad to say that, we are able to overcome and accept each shortcoming over time. One good point to this success may due to the fact that Ah Don accept that my other names are “ I Know & Always Right”
The next good thing is my improving health; since the medical bill is extremely expensive in this country, I have to avoid such cost. Luckily, my body has been kind to me; so far I have not being to any doctors for medical reason except once to the dentist. My secret to good health....practise Tai Chi and yoga every morning and follow natural health remedies.
On the negative side, I am getting super lazy and lack of confidence to pursue anything. I was not keen to set any goals. I felt there is no incentive to have the goal neither have I being motivated to aim high; There are so many limitations imposed on me. However, I do have the heart that keeps telling me that I need to get back my old active life; I ough to work harder, I should rebuild a good career here; I need to look for social works to involve with, I really have to extend my circle of friends and networking etc. But, my body just refuses to make the effort to initial the move. I would rather make excuses or to put the blame for not being given the fair opportunity in this foreign land!
In my first year, It was justified to say that I could not to do anything out from home since I did not have the status of Permanent Residency. So , that was basically a period for me to explore and learn how to adjust myself to the weather and culture of this country. In the mean time, I had to learn how to be somebody’s wife. It was a non-productive and non-progressive period. The only thing that I picked up during this period was how to list my sales in eBay.Also, it was through this process that I found my love for Garage Sale!!
In August the following year, I got my first job with the Green Card in hand. Unfortunately, I was unable to stay long with the company sue to some internal changes.
Then for the whole year in 2007, I lived on unemployment benefits. This is certainly my very first experience in my entire life. Beside this, I was fortunate to get the sponsorship form the the Manpower Department to pursue 2 management courses in a college. I went for computer training in the morning and attended management classes in the evening. I received 2 certificates from the American Management Association just 2 days before we moved to Florida. So this could be something that I have accomplished so far.
Currently, I am working full time, the job may not be the one that I want in mind; however, it put me in the workforce. Perhaps, this should be the time to kick myself hard enough to move toward the direction and the life that I want.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day To BYL
This powerful Proclamation was made by Julia Ward Howe in the advocacy for the need of official celebration of Mother's Day in Boston, United States of America in 1870. Miss Howe was the first person in US to recognize the need for Mother's Day holiday. She was successful in raising awareness amongst the masses and pushing her plead to the upper echelons of power.
Following this very potent Proclamation made in 1870, the Mothers' Peace Day Observance was held on the second Sunday in June, 1872. Such observances began to take place each year thereafter and paved the way for Mothers' Day Holiday in US on the second Sunday of May.Though Ms Howe could not herself get the day recognized as the official holiday, she is revered for her significant contributions towards the celebration of the day and for bestowing honor on mothers. Julia Ward Howe is also famous as the writer of the Civil War song, 'The Battle Hymn of the Republic'.
Mothers' Day Proclamation
Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether your baptism be of water or of tears! Say firmly: "We will not have questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us reeking of carnage for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy, and patience. We women of one country will be too tender to those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."From the bosom of a devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own. It says "Disarm! Disarm!" The sword of murder is not the balance of justice. Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession.As men have forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after his time the sacred impress not of Caesar, but of God.In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace.
Friday, May 9, 2008
MOTHERLY FEELING
Thursday, May 8, 2008
SHE IS OUR BOSS
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
SOME UPDATES
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
MY PET IS LEAVING......
We followed George all the way till he went into the bushes. Before he disappeared in the bushes, I saw him turned his head to look at us ..... I know, "George"likes us too. I held my tears to see him go ....... this is the second time that I can't keep a pet.
Long live my Soft shell Turtle. We will miss you .... and hope you will come back to our place one day.